the game..

either has no winners or no losers
if only one wins, then both lose

it's up to the integrity of both players to play fair
and to trust that the other will also play fair
u cannot keep score
u cannot control the other's moves
u can only decide ur own move and influence the other to move in a synchronized fashion

no one said it's an easy game to play
but in the first place
this should not be treated like a game

the stakes are high
when u lose, u lose big
but when u win
u win a lifetime of happiness and security

good luck, boys and girls!